Saturday 23 February 2008

Hamam

This recent trip to Istanbul finally fulfill my long time 'dream' of visiting a proper traditional hamam. As previous blog mentioned, I've discovered, learned and appreciated this time round in this charming city so much more, hence visiting a hamam was one of the 'got to dos' for me.

I've always heard interesting stories of hamam visits. The funny ones, good and the bad ones, and the sleazy ones but regardless I was determined. Took the chance of D having to attend a conference call in the hotel (D wasn't interested. I wonder why? :-), had my recommendations from the Concierge, my map, and off I went. It didn't take me long to find the place, as this hamam happened to be right in the city centre and a well historic and popular one in Istanbul. I can feel the whole scene of 'Chinky face, don't speck Turkish, let's charge him loads and give him poor service' appearing in my head. With all these thick moustache, massively fat hairy men laughing all over me. But I refused to let all these defeat me. Guarded with my Lonely Planet that explains all the 'to dos' when in a hamam, I took a deep breath and walked in.

Tarihi Galastasaray Hamami (Opened since 1824) is one of the city's best, with lots of Moorish marble design all over the internal wall of the building. You walked into this beautiful court yard with a fountain right in the middle. The whole place echos of water droplets and traditional zen like sounding Turkish music. It was still early when I arrived so it was really quiet. When you look up the court yard, all you can see was a massive stair well with three floors of small cubicles skirting around it.

Then a rather skinny attendant came over, showed me a menu of services in Japanese and English (Here we go! I can still hear the laughter in my head). He tried to explain to me each one means and consist of. And I've decided to go for the whole works. The use of the hamam, scrub down, massage and soap bath. All paid for and I couldn't wait!

I was then shown to a dressing cubicle. Got changed to the given bath wrap (a thin sarong) and slipped into the clickety wooden clogs, which was 3 sizes bigger (wasn't even trying to attempt to ask for the right size for me). An attendant then leads me through the cool room, and told me to wait. Sat there and just when I was feeling a bit chilly with only my skimpy sarong, the thick door pushes opened and here walked in this short big bellied and hairy body Turk, old enough to be my great uncle pointed at me to the other room (At that very moment, my hamam fantasy bubble burst into the thin air!) He pushes the thick wooden door and here we walked into the hot room where you sit and sweat for a while. This apparently helps you relax and loosen up your body, mind and skin. This room is in a massive circular shape with marble basin dotted around with cold and hot water taps. Separate washing areas were also found in four corners of the room. Right in the centre is this huge square raised platform atop the heating source. My Harry (I decided to name him that) then laid a thin sarong over the platform, made a low sound and pointed me to lie down (I wasn't even trying to ask him why). He left the room and I lied there for almost twenty minutes. Looking up, it was a huge dome shape like ceiling with windows looking through to the sky. Droplets of condensation was dropping from the top to the marble platform, soothing Turkish music was echoing in the background, I was literally being steamed like a fish on the marble top, sweating my hearts out, falling asleep. Enjoying the feeling. Feeling liked I was one of the princes having my daily pampering session

Then I heard foot steps. The clogs were coming closer. I know Harry is coming to get me! He walked in, pointed at one of the marble sink and got me to go over. He mumbled something, turned on the water taps and started douses me with warm water, lathers me with a soapy sudsy swab. I was literally shampooed all over. My hair, my face, body and legs. More douses of warm water followed. Next I was scrubbed with a coarse cloth mitten loosening dirt that I've never thought I would have and seen ever before. Dark dirt and dead skin was peeling off from me from his rather aggressive scrubbing. Its was painful and pleasurable at the same time (I was only hoping then for a hunky Turkish guy doing that to me). Wasn't trying hard to contain my laughter while my mind was slipping off to you gals with me, giggling our heads off.

When the scrubbing ended, he pointed me back to the marble platform, instructed me to lie facing down (By then Harry and I have already established the common way of sign language in a hamam). He started soaping me up again, but this time working on massaging my legs, arms, hands and back. I felt like a steamed skinned white chicken on a chopping board. He is now hurting me on parts of my body that I never thought of pressing and adding pressure on. Every muscle contours of my body, Harry's hands were over them, rubbing and 'soothing' them with his thick hands and fingers. Turning my legs and arms into weird positions and there I lied helplessly at the mercy of his expertise.

And I was then instructed to turn around (Hmm ;-), he started working on my front concentrating on my chest and stomach (Where is my dreamed hunky Turkish guy?!). At one point I thought my intestines were gonna tangled with the way he was rubbing my stomach like a baklava or bread dough.

Before you knew it, it was finally over. The massage I meant! I was ushered back to the wash basin, sat me down and Harry started lathering up this huge pot of soapy water with this long stringy cloth mitten. I never thought you can create so much bubble by doing that. With one swift action using his arms and with the help of the mitten, he scooped up a huge chunk of the bubble and started bubble bath me down again. I felt and looked like a giant snow man in bubbles!

With a few more douses of warm water, I was done! Cleaned should I say!

Was then ushered back to the cool room, another attendant came in with dry towels and even tower dry me in the most unusual and efficient way. Wrapped me around with the towel, including my head, walked me out to the court yard once again, sat me down by the fountain and offered me a small glass of hot Turkish tea.

Sitting there relaxing and reminiscing of the whole experience. Looking up the big stair well and all the cubicles around, imagining all the chatting, chest playing, men catching up with each other of their daily lives, transporting me back to the old times when hamam was just a way of life. With now the city growing and modernising, more and more hamams are shutting down due to low usage. Only the older generations are using them and they have to rely greatly on the tourism trade now a days.

I can only wish that the hamam which has been going on for centuries will persevere and open for a lot more centuries to come! The ancient form of Spa. What a treat!

Sunday 17 February 2008

More Than Words

You know there are times when you just can't simply describe how you feel exactly?

Times when you just wanna squeeze and hug him so tight and close to you?

Times when the sight of him make you smile and warmth in your heart?

Times when you have so much to tell him but a blink and a smile was all it takes?

Times when he make you want to be a better person?

Times when you fear so much that all of these are too good to be true?


Adele & Duffy

Go have a listen!

Adele. Soulful singer and a great album named 19. Sounds like a cross between Amy Winehouse & Corinne Bailey Rae

Duffy. Unique and beautiful voice that lingers in your head. Single 'Mercy' make you wanna swing and dance.

East Meets West

A city where East meets West - Istanbul. Stunning place. The last time I was here was 11 years ago. Visiting the city again brought back memories and felt all grown up as well.

My appreciation of this city is so different from before. Then it was just another city with bad traffic, ugly looking old buildings, minimum English speaking, loads of ancient history, makets that sells everything and anything but nothing caught my interest and a city which was just not quite like home Singapore. So young and ignorant I was.

Coming back again, the traffic both on land and sea is still as bad but the noise and kiokness adds energy and character to this city. The buildings old and new stand next to each other, new within old all sat by the straits radiates an old world charm. There is still not much English spoken but the Turkish language adds to the ethinicity of the place. Now the history facinates me. The smell and the colour of the spices in the Grand Bazaar excites me. Its still not the Singapore I know and not even London, but it's Istanbul. So young and ignorant I was.

Monday 4 February 2008

Jet Setter

Left this morning for Paris at 7.30am. Hosted one hour of a drink reception for a group of directors in one of the Sofitels. Left Paris and just got home at 8pm.

It doesn't make sense does it?! For once Paris doesn't excite me at all. Im tired... really tired.

Friday 1 February 2008

New York! New York!

A job opportunity came up yesterday. The current Director of Sales based in NYC whom I work quite close with is moving to Luxembourg to be closes to his family back in UK.

It's a fantastic opportunity! Especially for what I am doing now, moving forward with this role will definitely be a step up. Based in NYC looking after all the major financial houses and investment banks on behalf of Sofitel & Accor. The role itself is considered to be one of the top key account management role because of it's client portfolio. And to top it all off, the regional office is actually in the Empire State Building.

I work very well with Jo (my boss) and Jo knows Anne (NYC Boss) very well. If I initiate the move and show my interest, I do stand a good chance of getting this position. Well thats what I like to think so.

But there's a couple of catches. I am four months away of applying my British citizenship and now D of course. More of D actually...

Why Life is always so complicated?!

Rough As F#@K!

What did mummy ever said to you before?! Never mix your drinks!

Was out having dinner with D and a couple of his close friends last night. Started pre-dinner drinks with a Vodka Redbull mixed and then two glasses of Champagne... Bad move! Managed to find our way to the restaurant and while waiting for our table, ordered another drink of Ameretto with Lemonade & Lime. By then we were all starving. Ordered trays of dim sum and chucked them all in... Food was good and great company too but in the end I was feeling sick.

Got up at 6am this morning because D have a 7.30am meeting, while I have a 9.30am... sitting at my desk now feeling rough!

Why do this to ourselves?! How am I gonna get through today?! Thank God its Friday!! Rock on 5.30pm!!